Meet the Girls You Match with Using This Simple Tinder Hack
It's Drew again.
I wanted to check in and update you because I've been working with a small group of guys who are taking their Tinder success to an almost untouchable level and blowing away the competition in their area. What are they doing so differently that’s giving them so much more success? Well… it’s simple:
They're actually meeting nearly all of the matches who they get into a conversation with.
And they’ve been doing it by following a very basic framework that takes all of the guesswork out of the process (i.e. What should you say? When should you ask her out? HOW should you ask her out? What do you do if she says no? Etc.).
Let me explain...
Most Guys NEVER Meet The Girls They Match With
If you’ve spent even one day on Tinder or any of the other dating apps out there, you know as well as I do that matching up with a girl you like does NOT automatically lead to meeting her or taking things to the next level. In fact, with how many guys she swipes right on, matching up with her barely gets you in the running to ever date her. It’s tough out there, and unfortunately for most guys, getting a girl they matched with to go out with them is becoming a pretty rare event. In most cases, they match with the girl, and maybe say a word or two (if they’re lucky), and then nothing ever comes of it.
But the problem that I've identified as to why most guys haven't been able to get their matches to go out with them ISN’T because the girl isn't interested. After all, she did say 'yes' to the guy before they even said one word to each other.
And the problem ISN’T because she’s not willing. Why else would she be on a dating app to begin with if she wasn’t willing?? She’s there to meet guys. Really! And on most days, she’s on that app swiping right and swiping left just as often as you are, looking for someone to meet. So that’s not the issue here either.
The Problem Isn't What You Think It Is
No, the problem is actually something so simple and so obvious, you might never see it if nobody ever told you. It’s actually been staring you in the face this entire time without you even noticing it. But the good news is that once you've figured it out, you will have such a clear advantage over all of the other guys she's matched with, that success will be almost automatic for you.
And remember, just like the other guys, she already saw your photo and said yes. Just like the other guys, she read your profile (if you even wrote one) and said yes. Which begs the question... if all of that is true (and it is), what's really making the key difference between getting a date ...or being forgotten with everyone else?
The ONE Way to Set Yourself Apart From Everyone Else
Let’s think about this in the simplest way possible. If the photo and profile of every other guy she matched with has already passed her test and won her approval, then there’s pretty much only one way at this point to separate yourself from the rest of the pack: by structuring your conversation in a way that seamlessly attracts her and intrigues her enough to want to meet you. And it's WAY easier to do than most people ever imagine. This 'structure' includes:
So… here’s where the news gets good...
FREE LIMITED WEBINAR -
I'm going to be running a few FREE webinars soon that will talk about all of these things and how you can use them to go out with way more of your matches than you ever thought possible.
I'm interested in doing this webinar for guys who really want to learn this so that I can get the best feedback from them on my ideas for how I've solved these issues for both myself and some other guys, and how I've used them for my own dating success.
If you'd like to be a part of one of these free webinars, please let me know and I'll add you to our list to alert you when they’re being scheduled. And you can pick whichever one works best for you. Each one will have the same content, so you only need to pick one ...and because the information I'm giving can't be spread out too widely (the last thing you want is another guy in your zip code using the exact same conversation sequence on a girl before you do), I'm only giving access to the webinars to very few guys per area on a first come-first serve basis. So if you live in Chicago, for example, and you're on a webinar with 50 other guys, the odds are pretty high that only one or two of them (at most) are from the Chicago area as well.
We're gonna keep this very exclusive and very tight-knit, so if you're interested in learning about this stuff on a FREE webinar, please leave your info below and I'll be in touch soon.
PS: Remember, once we have enough people from your area registered on the webinar, you'll be locked out until we decide that it's okay again to open things up to more guys where you live, and it's anyone's guess when that might happen. So if you have any interest in learning about this, make sure to get yourself registered so that you can attend the webinar.